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Legal requirements

There are certain things that must be done before any civil or non-conformist marriage ceremony or civil partnership formation can take place. There is a requirement to give formal notice of the intention to marry or form a civil partnership to the Superintendent Registrar of the district(s) where the couple live. This notice is a legal statement of the couple’s circumstances, confirming that they are free to marry or form a civil partnership. It is a requirement that each party gives a separate notice. A fee is payable for each notice and is non-refundable. The notice is valid for 12 months and may be given up to a year ahead.

To give notice, certain conditions must be met. Parties must have lived in the district for a minimum of seven days at the time of giving notice. If they live in different districts, they will each need to give notice in their own district, irrespective of the district in which they choose to marry or form a civil partnership.

Before they do this, they must make provisional arrangements with the district where they wish the marriage or civil partnership formation to take place. After they have given notice, they must wait at least 16 days before the marriage or civil partnership formation can take place. (For example, if notice is given on 1 February, the marriage or civil partnership formation may take place on or after 17 February). During this time, the notice will be on public display in the office where it was given.

Documents

When giving notice to the Superintendent Registrar, the couple will be asked to produce certain documents to confirm their identity, age, nationality, marital status and address.

When making the booking to attend, the Ceremonies Team will give details of exactly what documentation must be produced at the time of giving notice. It is very important that these documents are produced on the day of the appointment, otherwise the notice may not be able to be given and a new appointment may needed. If you will have any difficulty producing the documents requested, please speak to a member of the Ceremonies Team as soon as possible and definitely before attending to give notice.

Documents required for giving notice of intention to form a civil partnership are the same as those for marriage.

British nationals

Proving nationality can be complex but if a you are a British national, the Superintendent Registrar will ask to see a current British passport. If this can be produced, no other proof is needed.

If you do not have a current British passport and do not have a naturalisation document or registration certificate from the Home Office, you will need to produce your birth certificate. If you were born on or after 1 January 1983, this will need to be a full birth certificate showing your parents’ details. Additionally, if your mother is British, you will need to provide proof of this. Her birth certificate showing she was born in the UK will be needed.

If it is not possible to prove that your mother is British and if your father was married to your mother at the time of your birth, you will need to prove that he is British. To do this, you will be asked to produce his birth certificate showing he was born in the UK, together with their marriage certificate.

Other documents

If not bringing a passport, you will also need two other documents proving identity, in addition to your birth certificate.

You will also need proof of your address, which could be a driving licence, household bill or an official letter.

If you have ever been married or ever entered into a civil partnership, you will need proof of your marital status. If divorced, you will need to produce your decree absolute. If the marriage has been annulled you will need to produce the decree of nullity. These documents must bear an original court seal. A photocopy will not be acceptable unless it bears an original, non-photocopied court seal.

If widowed, you will need to produce a death certificate which is an original and not a photocopy. If your late spouse's death certificate does not name you as the husband or wife, then it will also be necessary to produce the marriage certificate.

Similarly, if you have previously formed a civil partnership, evidence will be required to show how that civil partnership ended. If the civil partner has died, a death certificate will be required. If the civil partnership was dissolved, it will be necessary to produce the final order of dissolution bearing an original seal.

If you need to obtain a decree absolute or final order of civil partnership dissolution, these can be obtained from the court in which the divorce or dissolution was granted or from:

The Principal Registry of the Family Division
First Avenue House
42-49 High Holborn
London WC1V 6NP
Phone: 020 7947 6000 (main number) or 020 7947 7017 to request a search for a decree absolute or dissolution order.

Foreign nationals

If either person is subject to immigration control, the couple will need to give their notice at a designated register office and will need to meet other specific criteria. Details are available from GOV.UK's Marriages and civil partnerships.

Not all foreign nationals are subject to immigration control.

Please contact the register office if you need advice.

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For more information contact Medway Register Office by telephone: 01634 338899 / Fax: 01634 338913 or by email: register.office@medway.gov.uk

Write to: Medway Register Office, Northgate, Rochester, Kent ME1 1LS

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