Arriving
When you leave home to go to university you’ll probably be feeling really nervous – you’re leaving your friends and family to go away where you don’t know anyone. But it’s not all grim. Here’s some things you have to look forward to…
Weeks of fun ahead of you
Lots of partying
The chance to meet lots of new and interesting people
Living away from home – you can do what you want when you want
You don’t have to answer to your parents
You can have your friends over whenever you want
You’re about to start the best part of your life!
If you’re moving into halls, your university induction pack/letter will tell you what day and time to arrive at your new place. If you’re moving into a rented flat/house, you’ll need to organise a moving in day with your landlord.
Whatever timeframe you are given to move in, try and arrive somewhere in the middle – you don’t want to be the first one there and sit by yourself, but you don’t want to be the last one who misses out on getting to know everyone.
Wherever it is that you’re moving to, other students will be moving in at the same time, so take the opportunity to introduce yourself to people as they pass by – they may be your new neighbour!
Unpack a few bits to make yourself feel at home. It might be a bit daunting at first and a few creature comforts will help you through. While you’re getting things sorted, keep your door open. This way people will know you’re there and will be more likely to come and say hello.
It may seem really scary but everyone is in the same boat – away from home, scared and on their own. So, try and be confident even if you don’t feel it inside. You’ve got to bite the bullet and just go for it! Talk to people. Go round and knock on as many doors as you can. Tell people what room you’re in and ask them to come and visit you. Chances are they’ll be pleased that you’ve approached them – everyone wants to make friends.
Once you’re ready it’s probably a good idea to get your bearings. Find out where the local shop is and where all the main buildings are. Maybe you could see if your neighbours want to go with you.